I'm going to give the condo association one more chance-it was suggested to me that I should offer to install a new quiet bathroom fan(one of Hitler's choosing) if they'll buy it. This will solve this problem, hopefully. All that remains is the noise from the stove range hood noise, door opening noise, and of course the tv/music noise.
But to be honest I think I'd like to move into a real house by next May or June so I don't have to deal with this crap ever again.
And I'd recommend that anyone who is looking to buy a condo-DON'T. It a big problem that will complicate your life.